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Why do married couples in Japan not sleep in the same bed?

News - Jul 11, 2023
Why do married couples in Japan not sleep in the same bed?

In Japan, many couples sleep in separate beds or even separate rooms. However, this fact is not a reflection of intimacy issues or relationship problems; rather, it is seen as a means to good for their communication, promote harmony within the home, and respect individual preferences

They have different hours of operation

The first reason why Japanese couples choose to sleep separately is due to their differing work schedules. Disrupting a partner's sleep by coming home late from work or leaving early can negatively impact the quality of their rest.

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This is why spending the night in separate rooms allows both partners to enjoy undisturbed and healthier sleep.

Babies to sleep alongside their mothers.

In Japan, it is considered very important for mothers to sleep alongside their children. As a result, fathers have the choice to either share the same bed or sleep in a separate room.

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Image Credits: Internet

Scientific research has provided evidence showing the benefits of co-sleeping for both parents and children.

Co-sleeping aids in maintaining a stable temperature and heart rate for infants, which is crucial during their early development.

Furthermore, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, accelerated independence, and enhanced academic performance in school

Sleeping offers a sense of tranquility and individuals enjoy their own private space

Contrary to the notion that sleeping separately can lead to divorce, the Japanese view it from a different perspective.

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They highly prioritize the quality of their sleep and strive to avoid disruptions during the night. This means they prefer not to endure snoring and restless sleep.

 Even if some couples do not have the option to sleep in different rooms, they still yearn for uninterrupted and rejuvenating sleep.

Sleeping separately is a long-standing Japanese habit

Japanese-style blankets and pillows, also known as futons, are filled with cotton to give the owner a comfortable, pleasant sleep.

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Image Credits: Japancrush.

Since ancient times, futons have been one-size-fits-all and spread out like a bed for one person to sleep on. Today, many households still use the traditional comforter because it does not take up much space, is convenient to use, and is easy to store after use.